“I have loved you the way the Father has loved me.” (John 15:9)
Think about that for a minute.
Don’t keep reading this until you’ve really pondered the scripture above. What an amazing statement. Imagine the disciples, a motley crew of ordinary, everyday blokes. A few fishermen, a tax collector… They were men with ordinary parents, who probably did an average job of raising their sons, making do, loving them the to the best of their ability. Maybe the disciples had wives, ordinary everyday women with parents who did the best they could. All of those disciples had experienced human love with all its limitations, conditions, and flaws. On again-off again, “read the fine print,” fickle, temperamental, human love.
Then they met Jesus and He loved them in a totally different way: limitless, unconditional, and perfect–the way the Father has loved Jesus. What kind of stark difference there must have been between the imperfect love they had known up to that point and the divine love that swept over them in their relationship with Jesus. No wonder they were willing to leave their fishing businesses and their tax offices and even their families to follow Jesus. His love was amazing.
We sing about it. “Amazing love, how can it be, that you my King would die for me.” Or “Oh, how He loves us…” or “Love so amazing, love so divine…” How about: “Jesus, lover of my soul…” We sing about it, but do we know it? Do we really believe it?
Our perceptions of his love do not do Him justice. Naturally, we perceive His love through the filter of our experiences and the framework of our personality. Past hurts, rejection, unfulfilled promises, unmet expectations mar our experience of love. It’s as if our standards have been set and the bar is pretty low. Sadly there are people, women mostly, who tolerate use and abuse just to be close to someone–anyone, and who deem it love. It is so, so far from the love Jesus has for us.
Jesus has loved you the way the Father has loved Him. Get a hold of that. Put it in your pipe and smoke it! Breathe it in deeply, so that it seeps into your cells and penetrates your very DNA. The truth of it can set you free. It can revolutionize your life, then it can ooze out of you onto a lonely, unlovely world…
He loves you everyday, in everyway. He loves you when you get it right, and He loves regardless of whether you got it wrong. He loves the bits of you you dislike: your nose (yes, even your nose). He loves your skin. He loves your bald spot, “muffin top,” and/or stretch marks (I’m serious.) He loves you completely, inside-out, upside down, backwards and forwards. His love doesn’t count on you; it counts on Him. Rest, relax–BASK–in his love. You don’t have to win it or earn it or buy it. You don’t have to steal it, sneak it, or save it for a rainy day. Ooh, here’s a good one: He’s not just putting up with you–he loves you. You don’t have to worry that it won’t be there in the morning; He won’t love you and leave you. In fact, He will never, ever forsake you.
Here it is again. This is 100% reliable, eternally relevant, unchangeable, Gospel Truth (not my dribble):
”I have loved you the way the Father has loved me.“ (John 15:9)
Get a hold of it.
Ps Alison